“Judge not , that ye be not judged.  For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you…again“.  ~Matthew 7:1-2

In other words, stop walking around, spending all your time in other folk’s business– criticizing and bemoaning. Work on your own personal problems, forgive yourself and live! Let it go.  Just. Let. It. Go.